The Brain Bucket

My Point of View on Riding Rites of Passage

Feb 23, 2019 6:00:00 PM / by Jo Kelley

Motorcycles for Women: My Experience of Becoming a Rider

Every culture, regardless of its values or belief systems, adheres to certain rituals that mark important events in someone’s life. In the biker culture, these important events may include anything from your first motorcycle purchase, to attending your first biker rally, to the first wave you ever got from a fellow rider on the road. Whatever the case, these moments mean the most to those who have pledged their lives to the ride.

Motorcycles for women: rites of passage

“For many people, riding a motorcycle is not only a way to get around, it’s one of the most important social activities in their lives,” says As someone who has ridden motorcycles for years, I wholeheartedly agree. Belonging to the biker culture has exposed me to a way of life that I don’t intend to part ways with any time soon. But this isn’t to say my introduction to the culture was all sunshine and roses. I’ll admit, being a beginner rider brought plenty of challenges; but, being a woman rider was a humbling experience, to say the least. 

In the macho motorcycle culture that has long-dominated the sport, being a woman motorcyclist really is its own rite of passage. I, for one, am beyond thrilled that the 'only men can ride' stigma is beginning to fade, but I realize we will never be rid of it completely.

When I first started riding, there was an under-representation of motorcycles for women and female riders. I encountered several long-time riders, all men, who doubted whether I was a good ‘fit’ for the culture. I remember thinking, “What does that even mean? A good fit?” There are motorcycles for women out there, and I can ride a motorcycle just as good as, maybe even better than, you can. I respect the rules of the road, and, most importantly, I’m not wedged in-between some dude and the sissy bar sporting a “Property Of” patch. That’s gotta count for something, right?

Women motorcycle riders

But, for the first couple of years, it didn’t. It wasn’t until I started having conversations with other male riders that my outlook began to change. To this day, I’m so grateful to have met these men because they proved to me that not every guy on a bike subscribes to this ‘macho’ mentality. In fact, these men were more interested in promoting an all-inclusive biker culture, where everyone, regardless of age, experience, or gender, feels like they belong.

While there were times I felt discouraged in my pursuit to feel like I belonged, the truth is, I’m thankful for some of the hardship because, if anything, it reinforced that the things that matter most aren’t always the easiest to come by. But, when we do finally find our way, that feeling is easily one of the best we’ll ever have.

Want to share your experience? Leave me a comment and tell me your story. You could be featured on our blog!


Need to buy a used motorcycle to hit the road? We welcome trades!

RumbleOn welcomes trades of all kinds, and we have a full inventory of Rumble Ready powersports and motorcycles for sale at great prices. If you want to trade in your current ride for an upgrade, then just submit your scooter, ATV, dirt bike, or any other powersport vehicle for a free cash offer, and you can have a used motorcycle shipped right to you with no hassle!

All Rumble Ready powersports  and used motorcycles for sale come with a full Condition Report, are shipped straight to your doorstep as-promised or your money back, and with a 90-Day Mechanical Guarantee! Read more about online trades here!

Get my trade-in value

Topics: Articles, Motorcycles, The Brain Bucket

Jo Kelley

Written by Jo Kelley

I cover the history of motorcycles, motorcycle news, and tell the stories of some of the most popular brands.